Wife Files For Divorce On Husband Who Doesn’t Fight With Her And Is Too Accommodating
Apparently being too accommodating can be a reason for someone to ask for divorce.
A woman in the Indian state of Uttar Pradesh cited him being too loving as grounds for divorce after 18 months of marriage. She also mentioned that he doesn’t fight with her and it makes her feel “suffocated in such an environment”.
The husband in question seems like the dream of many women as he does his share of housework and sometimes cooks for her. He is also very forgiving of any mistakes committed by his wife.
“Neither does he ever shout at me, nor has he ever disappointed me over any issue. I am feeling suffocated in such an environment. Sometimes he cooks for me, and also helps me in performing household chores.”“Whenever I make a mistake, he always forgives me for that. I wanted to argue with him. I do not need a life where the husband agrees to anything,”
According to news reports on Hindi daily, the woman submitted those reasons to the Sharia Court as part of her plea to be divorced. The sharia cleric rejected her plea as it was ridiculous. Undeterred, the woman then brought her case to the local panchayat, a governing body in small towns and villages, where they were also unable to decide on the matter.
When asked if she had other reasons to seek divorce, she responded in negative. The court eventually asked the couple to resolve the matter mutually.
Reporter’s Opinion: Have you been in toxic relationships all your life that you don’t know how to appreciate something good?
Having said that, this is actually a serious problem. When you’ve been treated badly by your exes in the past, you seem to think that a relationship must have complications for it to be true.
When you have it good, you start suspecting the intention of your potential or partners. A healthy relationship with proper communication and respect scares you because “it’s too good to be true” thus it is not normal.
It may be new to you but it is normal. Learn to appreciate the good you’re receiving instead of running away from it only to chase what will hurt and destroy you eventually.
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