Screenshot Of Man Who Claims Sex Is A Reward For Taking Care Of Girlfriend, Goes Viral
Sex is now a reward for taking care of your partner it seems. In a post that has since gone viral with over 12k shares on Zed Diary’s Facebook page, the screenshots of a conversation between what we assume is a woman and her boyfriend seem to imply that notion.
In the screenshots, the man was calling the woman out for giving him the silent treatment because she refused to be objectified as a sex toy by him.
As entitled as he doesn’t want to sound, it sounds like what it is. Entitlement. Since when your partner is obligated to give you sex just because you took care of their needs?
What a clever use of words, master manipulator. Clearly the relationship didn’t start off with proper discussion of boundaries and what is expected.
This sounds like a very unhealthy relationship from the start. Why are you even still in it?
He clearly invested in the relationship for “reward”. If you wanted a sugar baby from the start, be honest. There are people out there who are willing to enter such contractual relationships.
Netizens were debating on the consequences of being dependent on a partner to take care of your monetary needs. They stressed on the importance of being independent and making your own money especially if you’re a woman.
And others were stressing on the fact that a healthy relationship is a partnership where the rewards includes companionship.
We really don’t know the context of the messages nor the dynamics of the relationship but the moment you feel disrespected in a relationship is when you should reevaluate the value of staying in it.
Reporter’s Opinion: What. The. Fuck.
But the reality is that these kinda relationships aren’t that rare and sadly, more women than men are trapped in a situation they could have avoided the moment they realize that their self-respect is being trampled upon.
I am not justifying the asshole’s actions, he is still wrong for expecting sex as a reward for doing things he could have clearly rejected but he did it anyway because he wanted to use it as a reason to manipulate his partner as and when he likes it.
It is a toxic relationship and he clearly doesn’t love her; he is treating her like a call girl, the difference is he gets to use her anytime he wants when he is on a budget.
Women, please for your sake, be firm. Be independent so that the only thing that they can expect of you in a relationship is companionship and loyalty. Stand up for yourself, your children and your future self will thank you for it later.
In a relationship, when you do things for your partner, let be out of love and sincerity. The moment you have an ulterior motive is when you should really reflect on yourself and ask when did you become a manipulative little shit.
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